Should Older Americans Live in Places Segregated From the Young?

Should Older Americans Live in Places Segregated From the Young?

Some are concerned that it may be harmful or discriminatory for older adults to live with their age peers, separate from younger generations. But studies show that for some older adults there can be be more benefits than costs.

Some are concerned that it may be harmful or discriminatory for older adults to live with their age peers, separate from younger generations. But studies show that for some older adults there can be be more benefits than costs.

Demographers frequently remind us that the United States is a rapidly aging country. From 2010 to 2040, we expect that the age-65-and overpopulation will more than double in size, from about 40 to 82 million. More than one in five residents will be in their later years. Reflecting our higher life expectancy, over 55% of this older group will be at least in their mid-70s.

While these numbers result in lively debates on issues such as social security or health care spending, they less often provoke discussion on where our aging population should live and why their residential choices matter.

But this growing share of older Americans will contribute to the proliferation of buildings, neighborhoods and even entire communities occupied predominantly by seniors. It may be difficult to find older and younger populations living side by side together in the same places. Is this residential segregation by age a good or a bad thing?

As an environmental gerontologist and social geographer, I have long argued that it is easier, less costly, and more beneficial and enjoyable to grow old in some places than others. The happiness of our elders is at stake. In my recent book, Aging in the Right Place, I conclude that when older people live predominantly with others their own age, there are far more benefits than costs.

Why do seniors tend to live apart from other age groups?

My focus is on the 93% of Americans age 65 and older who live in ordinary homes and apartments, and not in highly age-segregated long-term care options,such as assisted living properties, board and care, continuing care retirement communities or nursing homes. They are predominantly homeowners (about 79%), and mostly occupy older single-family dwellings.

Older Americans don’t move as often as people in other age groups. Typically, only about 2% of older homeowners and 12% of older renters move annually. Strong residential inertia forces are in play. They are understandably reluctant to move from their familiar settings where they have strong emotional attachments and social ties. So they stay put. In the vernacular of academics, they opt to age in place

Over time, these residential decisions result in what are referred to as “naturally occurring” age-homogeneous neighborhoods and communities. These residential enclaves of old are now found throughout our cities, suburbs and rural counties. In some locales with economies that have changed for the worse, these older concentrations are further explained by the wholesale exit of younger working populations looking for better job prospects elsewhere — leaving the senior population behind.

Even when older people decide to move, they often avoid locating near the young. The Fair Housing Amendments Act of 1988 allows certain housing providers to discriminate against families with children. Consequently, significant numbers of older people can move to these “age-qualified” places that purposely exclude younger residents. The best-known examples are those active adult communities offering golf, tennis and recreational activities catering to the hedonistic lifestyles of older Americans.

Others may opt to move to “age-targeted” subdivisions (many gated) and high-rise condominiums that developers predominantly market to aging consumers who prefer adult neighbors. Close to 25% of age-55-and-older households in the US occupy these types of planned residential settings.

Finally, another smaller group of relocating elders transition to low-rent senior apartment buildings made possible by various federally and state-funded housing programs. They move to seek relief from the intolerably high housing costs of their previous residences.

Is this a bad thing?

Those advocates who bemoan the inadequate social connections between our older and younger generations view these residential concentrations as landscapes of despair.

In their perhaps idyllic worlds, old and young generations should harmoniously live together in the same buildings and neighborhoods. Older people would care for the children and counsel the youth. The younger groups would feel safer, wiser and respectful of the old. The older group would feel fulfilled and useful in their roles of caregivers, confidants and volunteers. In question is whether these enriched social outcomes merely represent idealized visions of our pasts.

A less generous interpretation for why critics oppose these congregations of old is that they make the problems faced by an aging population more visible and thus harder to ignore.

A better social life

But why should we expect older people to live among younger generations? Over the course of our lives, we typically gravitate to others who are at similar stages in life as ourselves. Consider summer camps, university dormitories, rental buildings geared to millennials or neighborhoods with lots of young families. Yet we seldom hear cries to break up and integrate these age homogeneous residential enclaves.

In fact, studies show that when older people reside with others their age, they have more fulfilled and enjoyable lives. They do not feel stigmatized when they practice retirement-oriented lifestyles. Even the most introverted or socially inactive older adults feel less alone and isolated when surrounded with friendly, sympathetic, and helpful neighbors with shared lifestyles, experiences, and values — and yes, who offer them opportunities for intimacy and an active sex life.

Moreover, tomorrow’s technology is especially on the side of these elders. Because of online social media communications, older people can engage with younger people — as family members, friends, or as mentors — but without having to live next to what they sometimes feel are noisy babies, obnoxious adolescents, indifferent younger adults or insensitive career professionals.

Age-specific enclaves prolong independent living

Could living in these age-homogeneous places help older people avoid a nursing home stay?

Studies say yes — because here they have more opportunities to cope with their chronic health problems and impairments. Now their greater visibility as vulnerable consumers becomes a plus because both private businesses and government administrators can more easily identify and respond to their unmet needs.

These elder concentrations spawn a different mindset. The emphasis shifts from serving troubled individual consumers to serving vulnerable communities or “critical masses” of consumers

Consider how many more clients home-care workers can assist when they are spared the traveling time and costs of reaching addresses spread over multiple suburbs or rural counties. Or recognize how much easier it is for a building management or homeowners’ association to justify the purchasing of a van to serve the transportation needs of their older residents or to establish an on-site clinic to address their health needs.

Consider also the challenges confronted by older people seeking good information about where to get help and assistance. Even in our internet age, they still mostly rely on word of mouth communications from trusted individuals. It becomes more likely that these knowledgeable individuals will be living next to them. These enclaves of old have also been the catalyst for highly regarded resident-organized neighborhoods known as elder villages.

Their concerned and motivated older leaders hire staff and coordinate a pool of their older residents to serve as volunteers. For an annual membership fee, the predominantly middle-income occupants in these neighborhoods receive help with their grocery shopping, meal delivery, transportation and preventive health needs. Residents also benefit from knowing which providers and vendors (like workers performing home repair) are the most reliable, and they often receive discounted prices for their goods and services. They also enjoy organized educational and recreational events enabling them to enjoy the company of other residents. Today, about such 170 villages are open and 160 are in planning stages.

A question of preference

Ageist values and practices are indeed deplorable. However, we should not view the residential separation of the old from the young as necessarily harmful and discriminatory but rather as celebrating the preferences of older Americans and nurturing their ability to live happy, dignified, healthy and autonomous lives. Living with their age-peers helps these older occupants compensate for other downsides in their places of residence and in particular presents opportunities for both private and public sector solutions.

– By Stephen M. Golant, PhD

Stephen M. Golant, PhD, is a leading national expert on the housing, mobility, transportation, and long-term care needs of older adult populations. He is a Fellow of the Gerontological Society of America, a Fulbright Senior Scholar award recipient and a professor at the University of Florida. Dr. Golant’s latest book is Aging in the Right Place.

This article was originally published on The Conversation. Read the original article.


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The Home of the Future – The Trailer?

The Home of the Future – The Trailer?

Luckily for a nation of undersavers, a trailer park turns out to be a superb place to age. They offer close-knit communities with no stairs and fewer costs than traditional retirement housing.

The Milken Institute’s Best Big And Small Cities For Successful Aging

The Milken Institute’s Best Big And Small Cities For Successful Aging

Over half of this year’s winners are college towns, as they tend to have strong local economies, strong health infrastructure, strong transit systems, and innovative housing options. College towns touch many of the bases needed for successful aging.

States With Highest Proportion of Isolated Seniors Could Be Best Place to Age Alone

States With Highest Proportion of Isolated Seniors Could Be Best Place to Age Alone

The top five states with the highest and lowest proportion of aging solos. See how all 50 states rank.

Aging alone is a very popular topic and I find many articles that address issues like isolation, loneliness, and how staying connected and building friendships are the answer to living well. Recently at the Boston Globe, it published an inspiring piece about women without men and making their way alone. It’s true, women of all ages have grown up and more self-reliant than ever before in history. We support ourselves, have full time jobs, make major purchases, and even qualify for home mortgages, but for me, that’s not news, I’ve been doing all that since the early eighties.

Remember the Virginia Slims (cigarettes) tagline, “You’ve come along way, baby?” That was during the era when thousands of women found their wings. Today, those same women approach sixty-five or older, and most of us remain independent and determined. But our fierceness has more to do with aging well and not so much about proving ourselves. Who has energy for that? We have far more significant things to do like remain healthy and find suitable ways to age well.

Some things that older women want when aging alone are making close friendships, finding others to rely on, living under budget, hailing safe rides, eating well, attending fun activities, and being around like-minded. I suppose the older single men want the same things but in most cases more women than men live alone. For the record, the U.S. Census says close to 30 percent of the population 65 and over fall into the solo category, and of those over 60 percent are female.

States to Live if Alone

Recently, I was involved in the Census data that makes up the Seniorcare.com city guides. We found interesting statistics that involve older adults age 65 and over. The most significant point was the high number of residents across America living solo. So, we collated the data and found the top five states with the highest and lowest proportion of aging solos. See how the 50 states rank.

The Highest

State
Percentage of Seniors Who Live Alone
Percentage of Women Who Live Alone
Percentage of Men Who Live Alone

#1. North Dakota
31.73%
of all seniors.
40.26%
women
20.66%
men

#2. Rhode Island
30.88%
of all seniors.
37.91%
women
20.82%
men

#3. Nebraska
30.54%
of all seniors.
38.95%
women
19.45%
men

#4. South Dakota
30.15%
of all seniors.
38.45%
women
19.42%
men

#5. Massachusetts
30.02%
of all seniors.
37.17%
women
20.02%
men

The Lowest

State
Percentage of Seniors Who Live Alone
Percentage of Women Who Live Alone
Percentage of Men Who Live Alone

#1. Hawaii
18.95%
of all seniors.
22.58%
women
14.35%
men

#2. Utah
22.50%
of all seniors.
29.59%
women
13.95%
men

#3. California
24.09%
of all seniors.
29.80%
women
16.67%
men

#4. Arizona
24.49%
of all seniors.
30.77%
women
16.99%
men

#5. Texas
24.55%
of all seniors.
30.65%
women
16.68%
men

It’s my thinking, when growing older, you’ll want to make sure you hang around people closer to your age and circumstances to find support and people who will have your back. Of course, that doesn’t mean you should avoid younger individuals. Being around families and various ages will add fresh perspectives and flavor to one’s life. Otherwise, it may become ho-hum.

Case in point, my sister lives in Austin where 7 percent of the population are seniors. Early on, she noticed the upbeat Millennials, and, after a while, she recognized the noise that accompanied their entertainment venues, then the volumes of friends who joined in the fun, which ultimately grew tiresome and she became ready for peace and quiet. I for one choose to live among multi-generations, but I plan to pick and choose the dosage of exposure. And if that’s true for you, choose a state and city where there’s a balance of all ages.

A Good Plan Starts Here

Start with the basics. If you do not have nearby family, put the following long-term care planning strategies in place. The steps help improvise for no family members.

  • Draw up legal documents: a will, a living will, a healthcare proxy and a power of attorney. Find a loyal and trustworthy ally to stand for you as a surrogate or proxy. Just make certain you have unquestionable faith the person follows your wishes.
  • Find a “roof-mate” and share a home. Surround yourself with like-minded roommates and design a care plan that serves each resident equally if one needs help with daily living activities. HIre an attorney to draw up papers to outline responsibilities. It will make each party accountable.
  • Live close to public transportation.
  • Find a neighborhood that promotes shopping by foot.
  • Adopt a family to oversee your care. But make sure they’re trustworthy and reliable. Seek legal advice before signing anything.
  • If you have a chronic health condition, hire a patient advocate.
  • Eat fresh, healthy foods.
  • Exercise and stay fit.
  • Keep your brain active.
  • Volunteer.
  • Take up hobbies that fulfill your curiosity.

Other Considerations

When it comes to the home, health, and finances, stay in the driver’s seat. That’s why it’s important to plan early for retirement — and any future care. Planning for long-term assistance is one of the smartest decisions we make. When you do, benefits abound, and you will have:

  • More choices down the road.
  • Control of the health care decisions.
  • Less stress about the future.
  • Ability to help family and friends.

Learn About Medicare

It may surprise you but thousands of seniors 65 and younger have misleading thoughts about the program.

  • Only 11 percent understand what Medicare is and what it isn’t.
  • 60 percent know only a little.
  • 30 percent when within reach of qualifying for the health program have not researched it.
  • Nearly 43 percent don’t know where to go to learn about it.
  • 50 percent rely on other people to tell them what’s best.
  • 56 percent are not aware of the coverage options.
  • 61 percent never heard the term Medicare Part D.

One thing that’s certain, Medicare does not pay for every type of care a senior needs, especially long-term care. Nor does it pay for home health care or assisted living services. And if admitted to the hospital for less than three days, the health program will not pay the acute care bill.

Find Resources

I suggest you start with the Seniorcare.com city guides. Look for your state, then city, and click on the Helpful Contacts in the far left menu. Additional resources to check out, especially when living alone:

Elder Orphan Facebook Group – The group launched over a year ago and it’s name derived from medical research. Members speak freely of their concerns and challenges. If you’re aging alone, the group offers support and guidance for over 4,000 people.

#AgingVoices – A twitter hashtag campaign developed to share stories, news, and resources for the senior population. Follow us @Seniorcarequest & @Carebuzz.

SeniorCare.com Senior Guides – over 8000 local senior guides that give healthcare quality ratings, senior housing options and other useful data for aging Americans.

Connect2Affect – The AARP Foundation spearheaded the website for seniors living alone and dealing with isolation. The goal is to create a network of resources that meets the needs of anyone isolated or lonely, and helps them build social connections.

National Association of Area Agencies on Aging– The National Association of Area Agencies on Aging. The local AAAs provide aging and disability resources to the communities they serve.

NCOA.org – Energy Assistance | Benefits – The National Council on Aging several benefits programs can help with energy assistance needs.

Aging involves many people. If we live solo and age alone, it’s important to assemble our support team. But often we think of our support team as people. I encourage and challenge yourself to think about the community as a whole. How will the people and community serve you?

Give consideration to where you live and the nearby amenities, then ask, “Will my needs be met?” Do you have access to public transportation, affordable housing, social connection, medical facilities, entertainment, and activities that keep you active and able to age in place?

As one ages, the individual views successful aging as a balance between self-acceptance and self-contentedness on one hand and engagement with life and self-growth in later life on the other. Maintaining this wise perspective is a major contributor to aging well, even if alone.

Learn from the comfort of your home in April – Alzheimer’s disease

Learn from the comfort of your home in April -Alzheimer’s disease

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Supporting Couples Living with Dementia: How Spouses’ Roles Change
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Supporting Couples Living with Dementia: How Spouses’ Roles Change

Tuesday, April 11
noon to 1 p.m.

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The spouse of a person with dementia must struggle with many changes, including taking on new responsibilities within the relationship and adjusting to the new role of caregiver. If we wish to assist couples on this journey, we need to better understand the impact of these shifting dynamics.

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“How You Say It” – Making Matters Worse (or Better) by How We Communicate
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10:00 – 11:00 a.m.
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Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias cause changes in the person’s ability to communicate. Understanding these challenges and adjusting our communication patterns can make all the difference in the world. Learn some simple rules of thumb to communicate more effectively, both verbally and nonverbally.